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The number of people who have started using the sex toys while being closer to their opposite gender has increased rapidly in the past few years and this is mainly because of the awareness they have about safe and fun sex. Yes, it is very important for all to practice this for they will not only help them have and experience the pleasure and joy of being together but also would help them have a safe relationship. And this is emphasized more on people who are in live-in relationships and who date. Everybody has an interesting and lovely story to narrate when comes to their first date and the first experience with their lady love and here is mine which is all about how I enjoyed my date with a butt plug. The following are few things that I understood and things that I would like to share with the others which I feel is very important for all couples dating.

  • Dating need not be always expensive. You do not have to explore and adventure your partner`s bank balances for your date for there is nothing to do with money and there is absolutely no connection between the money spent and a lovely relationship.
  • Using sex toys might be fun but only when both the man and the woman are comfortable and come to a consensus to use it for pleasure. In such cases, when they decide to come closer, using a butt plug or a dildo would actually be more fun and enjoyable. It would give them the confidence to perform well and they would never be put down. Thus the stress of proving or performing badly is completely warded off when a couple decides to use these toys to make their first impression the best one. You can visit the for more information on this.

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When you are dating that perfect person and know where this relationship is headed, you tend to dream of the perfect wedding, get a pet together and sometimes even invest in a house together. When one can do all this with a person they are yet to be married to, why not appoint a photographer when you are dating?

I booked a wedding photographer when my husband and I were still dating.  It is when I was going through some photos clicked by Choco Studio that I decided I should have such wonderful photos of my wedding too. So, is this behavior of mine weird? I don’t think so.

Here is why I feel this is a great decision rather than a weird one:

By booking a wedding photographer while dating,

  • I was telling myself and my partner that we are definitely going ahead with the wedding and this was a way to show the commitment towards the wedding.
  • I had taken care of one of the biggest concerns of the wedding. I now have a photographer to fall back upon, and not worry about in the last minute along with the caterers and other people I have to coordinate with.
  • I had sufficient time to get trial session and come to an understanding of what will work out and what won’t for our venue, weather, settings, etc.
  • By having a wedding photographer by your side earlier than the actual wedding, we knew which photos were actually possible and which were just photoshopped. This helped us get in touch with reality and ensure our expectations were realistic and doable.
  • I could create a beautiful montage of our entire journey from the dating days to the wedding. This included our shopping, romantic dinners, gifts, planning, shopping, etc. so it was not just a few moments from the day of the wedding alone, it was the whole journey in a neat little package.


Marriage is the union of two bodies and two souls. It is possible that because the two people who have come from two different backgrounds and aspire to stay together under one roof that they may have slight compatibility issues in the beginning. They may have a little problem fitting in and also compromising with the other partner’s habits. This may take time. But it is also possible that matters that may look inconsequential may grow up to be so big that there are trust issues in the marriage and they have the ability o shake the very foundation of the marriage.

Let me give you an example:

My friend from college, Farah was a fun loving person. Even in college, she had profiles made on various social sites and matrimony sites like زواج. she kept getting great responses because she was not just beautiful in looks but was smart, sassy and could write creatively.

Now, it so happens that one of her cousins from the maternal side sent her parents a proposal to ask her hand in marriage and things simply worked out. After the Nikah was solemnized and the marriage consummated, Farah’s hubby Obaidullah came to know about her profile on the sites and her popularity there; he felt very insecure.

The marriage was on the rocks:

Farah managed the thing very well and she made it sure that Obaidullah was left with no complaints after she had a heart to heart discussion with him. She agreed to pull down her profile from all the sites and admitted to her mistake of overlooking not pulling them down earlier. She also undertook to pledge her commitment and dedication only for her husband.

Needless to say, Obaidullah was secure with the though and the gesture that Farah made and the couple are now having no trust issues whatsoever. When in doubt always talk and clear it out before it snowballs into something really too BIG.…


Everyone wants to look beautiful when it comes to going on a date or being asked on a date. Especially after having had a baby. You can have the best post-natal massage and be ready for your date. It might be a blind date or a night away from your little monsters with your spouse or a date on occasion of your golden anniversary, you just want to look stunning. Looking beautiful for a date is all about preparations and making yourself accessible to being hugged and kissed and loved. As we have all heard the saying “first impression is the last impression” and that is what dating is all about, the first impression that you make on the opposite person.

You cannot attract by just having a super tanned body or by applying a lot of perfume. When you are planning on starting your dating career you should be very careful about what you are experimenting or what beauty products you are willing to use. Here are few beauty tips you can use for your next date.

  1. Prepping Yourself: Best place to prep yourself is in the shower. Start by applying moisturizer mask or a Vitamin E oil to your face. The heat and steam from the shower will allow the pores to open for that extra moisturization that will penetrate your skin and make it really soft. With this, you can apply the whitening strip to your teeth to make it sparkling white and beautiful.
  2. Debloat By Soaking Yourself: If your feeling little bloated from previous meal take an Epsom salt bath. Fill the tub with hot water and add 2 cups of Epsom salt to your bath and sit in it for 10 minutes. The magnesium present in the salt will help remove all the toxins and excess fluid from your body.
  3. Exfoliate Yourself: Along with face having a smooth body will add that extra punch to your beautification. Use of scrub or an exfoliating glove to rub your body to remove any dead skin. This will also provide good blood circulation. Exfoliate your hands and legs and prepare them for manicure and pedicure.

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Like women are never too happy with the natural shape of their body, the men are not far behind. Most men are obsessed with the size of their penis and would almost always wish they had an enhanced penis.

While surgery is not the best idea, penis enhancers have newly been introduced in the health industry. These penis extenders are available in many variations however, they have been proven to have a positive effect on the size of the penis. There have been many significant medical studies that have been conducted to back the fact that these penis extenders actually work.

The principle they work on is that these extenders facilitate the growth of cellular growth and enlargement as a repair mechanism for the micro tears caused due to the consistent stretching.

Though many may say that this is untrue or is not effective, there is scientific proof to confirm the fact that penis extenders work effectively. The key here is moderation.

There are many choices available, you can choose the best penis extender for your needs and follow the tips below to see some miraculous changes in the size of your penis.

  • Like with any other exercise, moderation is the key here. Always use the penis extender only for the prescribed amount of time. Using it for longer will not help get faster results but in fact, would increase the chances of injury.
  • Overstretching does not help: As much as you think, the more you stretch the faster results you would get is far from the truth. It would stretch your skin beyond comfort and end up with skin tears and other injuries. It will in no way help you get the results you are hoping for.

Penis extenders are not magical, they do not provide results overnight or even in a few days. Here consistency is the key. When you use it regularly with a comfortable stretch and for the prescribed amount of time you will surely get the length you were hoping for.…

Health Tips

Skin is precious for one and all. Gone are the days when skin care was restricted to just the women. Today, men have become conscious of their looks and want to be presentable too. They don’t mind spending time on beauty treatments and using products to take care of their skin.

One should learn about skincare before they decide if it is a necessity or a waste of time for men. Though there are people who still believe skin care is only for women, men require it too. Here are some reasons why:


Today men and woman pay equal attention to the way they look. Skin is a major contributing factor to your appearance. When you neglect your skin, it gets dried and unhealthy. This lack of care is visible and tells people around you that you don’t care much about yourself.

For a woman going on a date with you, this can be a sensitive issue as you are silently conveying to her that you don’t pay much attention to your health and appearance.


Men’s skin is not resistant to skin issues either. With the weather change and rise in pollution. Even tough-skinned men suffer from a variety of skin issues. If you want to keep such issues at bay, you need to spend some quality time, taking care of yourself and your skin.


When you have an unhealthy skin, it draws attention towards it. Today, with a number of products sold separately for men and women, the skin care industry has a good number of male customers too.

If your skin looks dry and patchy, people around you will know you are not taking enough care. This makes you less presentable than the other men in the room, who spend some time taking care of their skin. This can affect your progress at work front as you need to look presentable when you attend meetings and address other employees.…

Beauty Tips

When comes to male chastity, there are no specific chastity rules and regulations and it is all about what the man has framed for his woman and what she has for his man. As all of us know, chastity is an understood concept when there is an equal understanding of both men and women because both of them play an important role here. And specifically, when the male uses a chastity device, he needs to get the consent of his girl before using it. Generally, females make the rules for their men and these are not specific but couple specific. So this can be framed as per the conveniences and desires of the male and female.

  • See to that he does not ask you to lie down on the bed for the climax. Never give him a chance for this. Instead see to that you keep him engaged with other fun-filled and exciting things like romance you, caress you and pamper you. Make him do things that would slowly wear you down, taking things off on you slowly step by step and slowly get into the ultimate act.
  • You can use the chastity devices to have the relationship taken till the climax but with no after effects. This is going to give you everything without a compromise on joy and excitement but definitely going to keep you within limits.
  • If you feel like being for a long time in bed with your spouse, then correctly gauge the time of his or her orgasm and try to slide a little away when it is time for it so that you do not get satisfied with what you want in a short time.

So these are general rules here at lockthecock and you can add some more to it with points and bullets comfortable and convenient for you.…

Sex Guide

Role play in the bedroom could flare up the flame that you might have been missing for a while. You could be anything from a nurse to a waitress and from a bunny to a panda; there is a role for everyone as long as you know how to play it. This bedroom action can be further fuelled by interesting butt plugs and role-playing games at involving them. Did you know that toys with tails are not just for furries but also for those who like adding that extra bit of kink to their roleplays? Well, yes, if anal sex is your thing then there are brilliant ways to add more excitement to your fun games.

Listed below are some of the best games you could try!

  1. Vibrating Play

How about a fascinating role play that involves a faux-fur butt plug made of silicone? You can use it with a water-based lubricant and can play a game where you vibrate your way through.

  1. Play the role of a kinky yet classy horse

If you prefer being kinky as well as classy at the same time, then a butt plug shaped in the form of a horse tail can give you that cute animal look while also keeping you looking sexy and desirable.

  1. Be the bunny

We love adorable bunnies. Be a bunny in the bedroom and call out to your mate in adorable ways with a bunny butt plug made of sterling silver and handmade steel.

  1. Play the obedient dog/bitch

A dog or a bitch is always obedient to its master. Add an element of dominance and submission to your kinky role play with a dog tail butt plug and entice your partner to a night of endless fun and excitement. Show your master how obedient you are and how you obey all the commands.…


Well, if you are dating some girl then you would know how difficult it becomes to find out some impressive gift for your girlfriend who already has almost everything. It is very obvious that you want to buy a present that she likes and uses but there is no point buying something that she already has. Hence, time to find out some cool gifts which girls would love to have.

  • Girls love accessories and the fact is no matter how many they already own, but it is always nice to have an addition to the existing collection. So, you can buy some nice silver bracelet or some unique necklace and to give it a cool touch, get her name carved on it. This can absolutely impress your girlfriend.
  • If you have some photography skills, then time for you to utilize it. There is hardly any girl on the planet who does not like to get clicked. Click some nice photos of her with you or maybe some of her solo pictures, and frame them and gift them to her.
  • You can make her a nice scrapbook in which, stick all those items which are parts of fond memories of both of you. Whether it was the ticket of your first movie date or maybe pictures from your Euro trip etc. All such pretty little things should be clubbed together into the scrapbook. This can be the best way to go down the memory lane.
  • If your girlfriend is fond of reading books, then get the latest book launched by her favorite author.
  • If a girl has a huge collection of cosmetics and jewelries, then get her a nice organizer to keep all her belongings organized. This is not only a unique gift but also it can be very useful for her.


Name any popular brand in the market today and you will notice that there are plenty of designer bags and purses available with them to pamper your needs. However, one thing that stops most of the people from buying their favourite bag is the price of that product. At times, the cost of it exceeds even our monthly salary. You can find many brands and individual sections under those brands that generally do not go on sale anytime throughout the year. Still, here we are with some fabulous ideas on how you can save money while buying your next designer handbag.

How to buy discounted designer bag

Some of the tips that can help you save money when you buy your next dream handbag include:

  • Before buying a bag, make sure that you browse different international e-commerce websites to compare prices. If another international websites are offering the product at lower price, then order the bag using their portal.
  • If you are sure of the design and committed to buying it despite of the on-going financial crunch, you can opt for going for a replica or second copy of your favourite handbag. This help you save money and also add more items to your collection in the same price.
  • Try picking an unusual colour as they are generally on sale and available at lower prices. People prefer picking basic colours like black, blue, cream, and grey. This is where rare coloured bags get neglected, thus entering the ‘sale’ section.
  • You will find great discount coupons in case you sign up for the emails and newsletters of renowned designers. They keep offering discounts and special offers that can help you buy wonderful and designer purses for less.
  • One smart thing you can do is save your money to spend during the Christmas and New Year season. Most of the designers offer sale in that period. Also, keeping the holiday and family season in mind, new launches also happen.

No matter where you are, Mumbai or Milan, don’t wait much if there is a sale going at any of the famous brands like Gucci and others.My husband got me a Gucci bag from here at discounted rates and I still love you use it at every occasion.



Anyone who knows to switch on and off a camera can take a video, even kids take a lot of videos these days. However, these are amateurs and no one would give them the important job of wedding videography. There are some jobs which are best left to professionals.

However, not everyone is great and have enough experience to back it up. It is important to find a good wedding videographer. Where and how to find, a good professional videographer may be your question.  The answer lies below

  • Subscribe to many video websites. There are some exclusive sites where people post the videos they have taken and one can search based on location or theme of the wedding. A friend Got a great wedding videographer here. They did a thoroughly professional job.
  • Check with your wedding planner and photographer, they may have references to people whom they work with.
  • You can also do a generic search on the internet. However, this may throw up excellent ones and sometimes mediocre ones. The chance of getting a good videographer is poor compared to other methods.

Once you have chosen your videographer, it is important to have a discussion with them. This would really help you in finding out if your styles match. There are some questions which you should ask them before coming to an agreement, like

  • What kind of equipment and camera they will be using
  • How many shooters will be there, so that you can mix various angles and make a nice video
  • What would be the theme of the video?
  • Have they ever done a wedding at the same venue, if so then look at them
  • You should also look at their previous work
  • Do they have any references or they have worked with your wedding planner or photographer?

Thus, finding a good videographer is not such a big deal if you are clear on what you want and where to find them.…

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Are you nervously excited and happily anxious about your first date? Relax! It’s a very common feeling and more so if you are genuinely interested in the girl. Before you go searching for some first date questions to ask the girl, take a minute to read about what you should do to have a memorable, happy first date.

  • It is essential that you make your date speak. Be a good listener. Talk about yourself but ensure that there is an equal amount of conversation exchanges between the two of you.
  • If you’re really interested in this girl, you would want to know about her. So, it’s natural to ask questions. However, in your over-enthusiasm, do not go overboard and ask her too personal questions on sensitive issues which make her feel uncomfortable and defensive.
  • It is necessary to look natural and appear comfortable. Make her feel comfortable and do not be very aggressive or withdrawn. It is important to respect the other person’s need for space and make her feel secure and comfortable around you.

Now, that you have read the tips on how to conduct yourself during a conversation with your first date with this girl, let us look at some real questions, that you can ask depending on the situation and her comfort during the date.

  • What is your favorite holiday destination? What is the best holiday you’ve ever taken? Any funny embarrassing incidents that took place during your holiday? You could narrate your experiences to get her to talk.
  • What is your hobby? Do you like watching movies, reading books or do you like to paint/ draw/ sing / dance depending on her interests? You could mention your hobbies, say, you could tell her if you’re interested in photography, some sport which you play regularly or like watching. Observe her and take agenuine It shows and reflects the kind of person you are. The more natural, smooth and honest you appear, there are more chances for the girl to get interested in you.

So, look for real conversation starters and be cool and stay calm to ensure a splendid first date.…

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