Tori Spelling: Why I’m Overprotective of Finn

Considering Finn Davey is her fourth child, you would think Tori Spelling might relax a bit and not worry so much about his safety and well being.

But in fact, it’s the opposite — perhaps because his health was never a given.

“[My husband] Dean [McDermott] says I’m actually more protective of Finn than I was of the other three,” Spelling, told PEOPLE during the 3rd Annual Santa’s Secret Workshop, which benefited L.A. family housing, in West Hollywood on Saturday.

“I think because of what Finn and I went through medically — it was a rough pregnancy — I may not consciously know it, but at home I’m usually behind him going, ‘Wha! Wha! Wha!’ And Dean is like, ‘Please stop gasping!’ “
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But whatever the psychological effects of that pregnancy — she had placenta previa and underwent emergency surgery after the birth due to c-section complications — Spelling points out that Finn is also just naturally rambunctious and needs someone watching him extra closely.

“He’s our little bruiser of the family. Liam‘s our ham, but Finn is running and terrorizing everything,” the upcoming Tori & Dean: Cabin Fever star says. “Liam was a super mellow baby and with Finn, if you turn around for one second, his finger is in the socket and he’s pulling the blinds around himself. He is that kid.”

“It’s really difficult right now,” she says. “The babies are only 10 months apart, and they’re both still waking up at night. We’re up during the night. We have different sleeping schedules.

She adds, “It’s really tough right now, but we love every second of it. Maybe if I’m lucky, one night a week, I get to watch some TV.”

The silver lining? The chaos is keeping her in shape!

“I don’t have time to go to the gym,” she says with a laugh. “I have four kids that are 6 and under! I literally wake up at 6 a.m. and I don’t stop until they go to bed at night. Then I have a blog to write and businesses to run. I don’t stop, so I think that’s what keeps me in shape.”

Hattie & Finn’s Birthday Party

Birthdays are a big deal in the McDermott household, and I knew that we had to go all out for our littlest ones’ big days this year. We decided to have a joint party for Hattie & Finn (their bdays are only a couple months apart), so we could celebrate both birthdays together (it was Hattie’s 2nd birthday in October and Finn’s 1st in August!). We went with a rodeo theme (it all starts with the theme!), and dressed up our little bday babes up in cowgirl/cowboy attire. Here are my pics from our day at the rodeo:

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Tori Spelling Dishes on Baby-to-Be’s Gender

While I’m hard at work getting the gallery updated with all of the latest events, I wanted to post this cute little article that I found online. Check it out:

Should Tori Spelling be stocking up on pink or blue?

The mom-to-be won’t know until her third child is born! Spelling, 37, told Us Weekly at Simon G. Jewelry’s annual Summer Soiree in Las Vegas on Saturday that she and hubby Dean McDermott want their unborn baby’s gender to be a surprise.

“We’re not going to find out [the sex of our baby],” she explained. Spelling and McDermott have two children together: Stella, 2, and Liam, 4. Their third baby is due in October. “We have one of each, so it will be a traditional surprise on the day.”

But are Spelling and McDermott secretly hoping for a boy or a girl? “No, actually. We’re so pleased to have one of each,” Spelling said. “We just want a healthy baby.”

The reality star admitted that her third pregnancy has been “a little tougher than the first two.”

“I had a pretty rough first trimester just with the typical nausea and being tired, but I’m also a working mom so that doesn’t help and having two toddlers you forget what that’s like,” she said. “Now I have two that I have to deal with while pregnant so it’s harder.”

Say cheese! Tori Spelling goes behind the camera as she turns photographer for the day

Tori Spelling is famous for her work in front of the camera, acting in Beverly Hills 90210 and starring in her own reality TV show.

But the mother of two decided to cross over at the weekend and have a go behind the camera for a change.

Spelling turned photographer for the day, snapping photos of friends and family as she hosted the Sony Nexus Cameras Back To School BBQ in Los Angeles.

37-year-old Spelling wielded the camera like a pro, posing her subjects and trying all angles in the quest for the perfect picture.

She had plenty of cute subject material to experiment with – taking snaps of her baby Godchild, Simone Lynn Masterson-Horn, who was wearing a large pair of pink sunglasses to add to the comedy value, and her own daughter, Stella.

The little two-year-old posed happily for her mother, dressed in a pink polka dot swimsuit and yellow inflatable armbands, half-eaten ice-cream in hand.

Like any great artist before her, Spelling sought out the help of a muse to add to her creative spirit.

In the reality star’s case she chose husband Dean McDermott – proudly showing off her day’s work to him as he cradled their Godchild who was taking a well deserved break from her modelling duties.

Spelling grew up as a fully fledged member of Hollywood royalty.

Her father was Aaron Spelling, the hugely successful and mega-wealthy TV producer that created hit after hit show, including Charlie’s Angels, Dynasty and Starsky and Hutch.

As a child Tori got plenty of on-camera experience, guesting on shows such as Love Boat, T.J. Hooker and Saved By The Bell.

She shot to fame though portraying virtuous Donna Martin on her father’s hit show, Beverly Hills 90210.

Tori has also starred in two different reality TV shows – So NoTORIous and Tori and Dean: Inn Love.

The later followed Tori and her second husband, Dean McDermott as they endeavoured to run a bed and breakfast in Fallbrook, California.

Spelling is also an author, having written and published three books.

She released her first autobiography in March 2008, titled sTori Telling, following up with Mommywood in April 2009 and a third book this year called Unchartered TerriTORI.

She says of her writing experience: ‘I love sharing my stories and experiences with people and connecting to them on both a humorous and emotional level.’

From the Daily Mail

Tori Spelling: Why I Got So Skinny

Tori Spelling’s wafer-thin frame has been the topic of much debate — and in her new book, TerriTORI, she reveals why she shed so much weight.

According to USA Today, Spelling, 37, blames swine flu, stomach pain, migraines and nerve problems for her weight loss. She says she had to take three rounds of antibiotics that caused severe stomach pain. “I’ve never had a great stomach, but (being ill) just completely tore up my stomach and broke down my immune system, and I’ve basically just been a mess ever since, stomach-wise,” she says. “It’s about rebuilding my immune system.”

Last year, tabloid rumors got so wild that it prompted the 90210 alum to declare last fall on Twitter that she weighs 107 lbs.

“I’m a role model for a lot of women out there, so I hate that they say these things unwarranted, without any research and facts,” she says. “I think it’s doing a disservice to women out there that look up to any celebrity.”

She says she worries “every single day” how the coverage will affect her daughter Stella, now 2, down the road.

“I’m so grateful that she can’t read yet,” she says. “I’m hoping they’ll let up on that by the time she gets old enough to understand, but I’m going to have to explain to her that this is what happens.”

Spelling — who recently renewed her vows with husband Dean McDermott, as Us Weekly exclusively reported – also weighs in on their marriage, admitting that things got rocky last year.

“We had problems that we never thought we would have,” she vaguely says. “We thought we had the perfect relationship. We realized we love each other, but the communication had completely broken down and a lot of our issues, honestly, came from parenting.”

And how are things with her once-estranged mother, Candy?

“We do talk on the phone. We do e-mail. We see each other for dinners. We do the normal stuff I think families do. There’s no strain,” she says. “We’re still building our relationship, of course, but she’s great with the kids (Stella and Liam, 3). She’s completely involved, which is all I ever wanted. We’re just moving forward.”

From US

Tori Spelling: My life is a show

Tori Spelling finally has everything she thought she wanted — a loving family and a successful career — but it wasn’t always easy. In her new book, “Uncharted TerriTori,” the star opens up about her struggle to balance work, marriage, motherhood and reality TV cameras all while learning to find her happy ending. An excerpt.

A few weeks ago my friend Jacob was flying Virgin American from New York to L.A. As the plane began its final descent into LAX, the cute and obviously gay lead flight attendant made an announcement to the cabin. He said, “Welcome to Los Angeles, birthplace and residence of Tori Spelling.” When my friend reported this story to me via email, I thought it was hilarious, but I also didn’t know exactly what to make of it. I was born in L.A. Fact. I still live here. Fact. But on what grounds is that of common interest to an airplane full of diverse travelers? Is it a compliment? Is it a joke? A little of both? Of all the famous people, of all the actors, of all the tabloid darlings, of all the gay icons (if I can call myself that), why me?

But as someone who produces and stars in a show that follows my daily life for the entertainment of millions of people (holy crap!), I can’t spend too long on questions like that. After “90210” and so many TV movies, my career had slowed, and recently, in my reality show, it has found new life. The name Tori Spelling draws viewers, and it sells magazines, books, a jewelry line, a children’s clothing line. And my name also, apparently, occasionally welcomes certain unsuspecting travelers as they arrive in Los Angeles. So it goes. I’ve come to accept that the small moments of my life, my relationship, my family, my business ventures — usually in edited, broadcast form — are a spectacle. My life is a show. My self is my business. My name is my brand. It’s a weird way to live, and maybe I’ll never get used to it, but at the same time business is booming. My life has changed dramatically in the past several years. I married Dean; we moved several times; we had two children; we created a show that has gone into its fifth season on the air. I have love. I have a family. I have a home. I have work. It’s all I ever wished for. But trying to be a perfect wife, mother, and mini mogul has its challenges, especially if, like me, you want to be perfect at all of them at the same time.

Turns out I’m officially a workaholic. I think I’ve always been a bit more driven than anybody realized, myself included. I have ideas. I want to try new things. I see business opportunities. The difference is that before “Tori & Dean” was a success, nobody ever cared what harebrained scheme I was dreaming up. Nobody expected anything of me. Nobody took me seriously. Nobody would have wanted to partner with me. I didn’t have the means to make any of it come to pass. Now I have the power. Now there’s no excuse not to act on a big idea. Now I can back it up. I have a show. I have two successful lines. I have two bestselling books. I own a well-known brand. (You know, Tori Spelling. Who’d a thunk it?)
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I was poised to be a workaholic. In the seven years between “90210” and “Tori & Dean,” my acting work came and went. Being an underemployed actor as I was puts the fear in you. I am nobody. I’ll never work again. If I can just get a break I’ll make the most of it, I swear. I developed a strike-while-the-iron’s-hot mentality. I don’t want to miss a single opportunity.

I’m finally in a position where ideas that I have can actually blossom into businesses. When I shop for new bedding, I can’t help thinking, Maybe I could do a line of Hollywood Regency-inspired shams. I spend a day doing crafts with the kids and start fantasizing about developing a kids’ crafts show or magazine sharing the joys of homemade play dough and pipe cleaner animals. I cook dinner and envision a recipe book with my nanny’s special shepherd’s pie. I hobble out of an event, barefoot, with four-inch heels in hand, and fantasize about Tori Spelling–branded disposable micro flip-flops. (Somebody please run with that.)

I want to do a show with Dean where we put together dream weddings on a budget: it’s on! There’s an opportunity for me to do the talk show I’ve always dreamed of? So what if it’s all day, every day, forty-four weeks a year, I want to do it! My agent’s worried I’m going to drop dead. Can we clone me? I wonder. Nah, the clone wouldn’t do it right. Yeah, I got the whole workaholic package, which means I’m so completely incapable of delegating that I couldn’t even delegate to my own clone. People talk all the time about leaving work behind at the end of the day, about how important it is to draw a dividing line between your job and your life. But my job is to be Tori Spelling. I can’t exactly take a break. In some ways I feel like I’m turning into my father. Dad was a workaholic. He was productive, work was lucrative, but it never stopped. When I was little I hardly noticed. I thought every father came home long after dinner and baths were over, just in time to kiss his children good night.

Even late in his career, my father never stopped caring about every detail of every show. On weekends he would come home with a briefcase full of scripts. We’d go out to the pool together, I’d click open the briefcase, and we’d sit next to each other reading. He dog-eared the pages where he had notes, just as I now do with scripts. By the time he was finished with a script, every single page would be folded over and every line of the script would be rewritten. When we first started “90210” he even brought home Polaroids of the wardrobe options for Brenda and Brandon. He couldn’t delegate either.

Ultimately I feel like my father died because he could no longer work. When he stopped working he went quickly downhill. There was no adjusting to a new focus and pace at that age. He didn’t know how to just be.

Twitter — the way I use Twitter, is a perfect example of how it never stops, how I never stop. Sometimes Dean is sleeping next to me in bed while I tweet until one a.m. I tweet what I’ve prepared for the kids’ holiday parties at school. I post what movie I watched that night. I check to see how many followers I have. I check to see how many followers Brooke Burke and Denise Richards have (they’re in the big leagues, each with over a million followers). I’m obsessed with how many followers I have and what makes them decide to follow me or to stop following me. If I talk about cute things the kids are doing, my followers drop off. If I retweet news items, people sign on. If I don’t tweet for a day, I gain a hundred followers. When I posted that I watched “Paranormal Activity,” I gained fifty-six followers. Why, why, why?

I tell myself I’m doing it for the fans and for my business; I’m building my brand. And I do use Twitter that way. For Little Maven, my kids’ clothing line, I went on Twitter to do a model search. People posted photos of their children to Twitter, and I selected models for our look book — a catalogue for retail buyers — and website. My “followers” know that it’s me looking at the pictures. I’m the one who’s picking their kids. They know that I’m not doing a celebrity endorsement, that I’m actually at the helm of my business. And they also know that I’m the one who’s dropping my kids off at school. Because I tweet about it afterwards. It’s kind of like I’m stalking myself, but it doesn’t feel creepy. It makes me feel connected to people. If I’m going to be a brand, it’s nice to feel like people really know me. But I also see how my obsessive twittering can be unhealthy. Nothing is private, nothing is sacred. Dean is asleep next to me, and I should be sleeping too. I’m more stressed than I’ve ever been in my life.

I haven’t found a good balance, and (when he’s awake) it doesn’t sit well with Dean. A couple of nights ago Dean came into the kitchen and told me he’d run a bubble bath for me — an overt effort to get me to relax. Liam and Stella were running around the kitchen, waiting for me to make them dinner. Dean said, “Don’t worry, I’ve got it.” Dean is perfectly capable of making dinner for the kids. Nonetheless, I started pulling out the broccoli, rice, and hot dogs. Just to get him started. Dean stood there staring at me. “What are you doing?” he said, “I just said I’ve got it.” But I couldn’t stop myself.

I’m not just controlling when it comes to the kids. I came into the kitchen the other night to find Dean, who is self-sufficient in all things, eating a dinner he’d made for himself. When I saw him sitting there, alone at the table, I felt deflated. “I was going to do that for you,” I told him. I wanted to make dinner for him. I wanted us to eat together even if I got home too late. I want to be able to do everything. Then I’m resentful of having to do everything.


25 Things You Don’t Know About Me: Tori Spelling

Tori Spelling, 36, (her reality series, Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood airs Mondays at 10 p.m. on Oxygen) shares the 25 things you don’t know about her with

1. I love horror films! I’ve seen almost every one ever made. Even obscure B-flicks like I Spit Your Grave. Genius!

2. My favorite color is Kelly green. I used it on my Mommywood cover.

3. I’m allergic to cats, but I had three of them for years because they’re supercute and I work with rescue animals.

4. I hate roller coasters!

5. My kids [Stella, 22 months, and Liam, 3] are obsessed with Yo Gabba Gabba! It’s a dream to guest on the show and do a dance-y dance!

6. I’ve never had a cavity! God bless dental floss.

7. I love making Jello molds. So retro chic, and I want to bring them back!

8. Can’t whistle! After 25 years of trying, I’ve finally come to grips.

9. I dream of living on a farm. I want chickens, goats, cows and horses! We want to grow our own veggies and fruits and make our own milk and cheese!

10. I want to be Martha Stewart! A life of crafting, cooking and party planning — three of my favorite things!

11. One day, I want to open an animal sanctuary to house all the homeless, unwanted and abandoned animals.

12. I pray to Christian Louboutin (JK…kinda).

13. I love collecting antiques and want to go antiquing across the country and then open my own store!

14. My godmother was Barbara Stanwyck, and my godfather was Dean Martin.

15. I want a VW van — old school.

16. I’m obsessed with avocados. Eat one daily. Passed the obsession on to Stella too.

17. I hate drinking water. Can’t understand why something flavorless is enjoyable.

18. I can do flying splits! I think that’s why my husband Dean [McDermott, 43] fell in love with me!

19. Terrified of tarantulas. Spiders shouldn’t have fur!

20. Could live on sushi and be really happy!

21. I think truffle oil is god’s gift to cooking.

22. I don’t drink coffee. I know…weird!

23. I don’t grow armpit hair. Too much information?

24. I have never had chicken pox.

25. I played Humpty Dumpty in my high school play. Ironic, I know!

From US Magazine

Tori Spelling Has a New Book, New Season of Reality TV Show Due Out This Spring

Tori Spelling is Busy Juggling Motherhood, a Reality Show and Work on a New Book

Tori Spelling is one of those celebrities that people either love or hate. While she’s been pegged in the past as a spoiled princess (her dad, the legendary Aaron Spelling, was one of the biggest television producers in history), she’s also managed to establish a successful career as an actress, author, and entrepreneur (she has a jewelry collection on HSN as well as a children’s clothing line, Little Maven).

Tabloid fodder for most of her life, Spelling has been in the spotlight for things out of her control (like living in the biggest house in California as a teen) to things well in her control (like her affair with current husband, Dean McDermott, and her well publicized estrangement from her mother, Candy). Still, Spelling has managed to keep her fans happy, by letting them into her life via an Oxygen reality show Tori and Dean Home Sweet Hollywood and by penning books about her personal life. Now she’s also keeping herself happy too.

Tori and Dean Road Trip

Fans of Spelling’s hit Oxygen reality show, Tori and Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood, are no doubt excited for the new season to start up this spring. Last fall, USA Today reported that Tori and Dean would go on a cross country road trip for the new season of their show. Without the luxuries of her Hollywood home, it’s anyone’s guess how Tori will do.

Tori’s New Book

Spellings’ previous books, sTori Telling and Mommywood, were both New York Times bestsellers. Now fans can look forward to her latest book, unchartered terriTORI. The book is slated for release on June 15, 2010. Based on the book’s product description, it looks to be a collection of essays about Spelling’s life.

Family Matters: Resolved?

Spelling’s widely publicized estrangement from her mom, Candy, made it seem like the duo’s differences were practically irreconcilable. The rift allegedly started after Aaron Spelling died in 2006, although in her books Tori details an often- difficult relationship with her mom throughout her life. But in December, People Magazine reported that Tori and Candy’s relationship was on the mend. So will Candy Spelling appear on the new season of Tori and Dean? That remains to be seen, but after the scathing letter she sent to TMZ after last season’s finale, it still seems pretty unlikely.

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